Forum rules & privacy

Adult conversations built on consent, respect and care with personal information.

Community rules

Adults only

Everyone using the forum must be 18 or older and meet the platform's verification requirements. Never post sexual content involving minors, people presented as minors, or sexualized depictions of minors, including edited, fictional or AI-generated material. Report suspected child exploitation; do not download or repost it.

Respect people and boundaries

Discuss ideas without insults, hate, threats, stalking, blackmail or repeated unwanted contact. Do not pressure anyone for sexual content, personal information or a reply. Disagreement is welcome; harassment and targeting a member across threads are not.

Protect other people's privacy

Do not reveal another person's address, contact details, identity documents, private messages, medical information or intimate history without permission. Do not expose a pseudonymous participant's identity. Do not share screenshots or recordings of another member's forum content outside its intended audience without permission.

Choose the right room and context

Keep titles and previews descriptive and non-graphic. Put adult discussions and permitted adult media in the appropriate adult room or category. Mark sensitive details with a content warning or spoiler. A spoiler does not make prohibited content acceptable. Category rules may be stricter but cannot override platform rules.

No exploitation, fraud or manipulation

No trafficking, coercion, illegal services, scams, stolen content, malware or attempts to bypass account safeguards. Do not spam promotions, recruit coordinated harassment, buy votes or use multiple accounts to manipulate polls and reactions. Label sponsored or commercial recommendations clearly.

Health discussions and Q&A

Personal experiences, poll results, creator answers and accepted answers are not a diagnosis or professional medical advice. Avoid identifying another person's health or sex life. For symptoms, treatment or testing, contact a qualified clinician. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Privacy in practice

Who can read your posts

Forum discussions are available to verified members who can enter that room or category. Creator-only areas have additional access restrictions. A forum topic is not an invitation-only club or a private message. Following a room or topic does not make your posts private.

What a pseudonym hides

A pseudonym replaces your profile name and profile link for other members in that topic. Your account remains known to authorized moderators and is not anonymous to the platform. Photos, voices, usernames mentioned in the text and personal details can still identify you. Creator AMA sessions and a category's first topic use the author's profile.

Drafts, votes and reading progress

Drafts are saved to your account so you can resume writing; they are not published to other members. Polls show aggregated results according to the author's visibility setting, not a list of each member's choices. Room notification preferences and reading checkpoints are stored for your account. Poll ballots are not anonymous to the platform.

Media and sensitive information

Forum media uses access-controlled storage and temporary viewing links. These controls cannot stop an authorized viewer from taking screenshots or recording a screen. Check faces, reflections, location clues and file metadata before uploading. Share only what you are comfortable showing to the topic's audience; avoid documents, contact details and unnecessary sensitive information.

Editing, removal and review records

You can edit your own available posts. Removing an item from member view does not necessarily erase moderation evidence, backups or copies already made by viewers. A report preserves the selected item for authorized review. Retention periods and the dedicated process for data-access or erasure requests must be finalized in the Privacy Policy before public launch.

Reports & review

Report the exact item

Use Report on the topic, reply or category and explain what is wrong. For a rights or privacy issue, choose Something else and identify the affected material without reposting it. Reports go to the safety workflow. Check My Safety Requests for the case ID, status and available review or appeal options. Do not use reports to punish disagreement.

What moderation can do

Depending on severity and context, staff can review content, lock a discussion, remove content, issue a warning or restrict an account using the platform's safety process. Severe exploitation or danger may require immediate restriction. Moderation should state the reason and available review options. An accepted answer or popular poll does not mean staff has endorsed it.

These community rules apply during beta. The full Terms and Privacy Policy remain beta drafts. Operator details, a dedicated rights contact, retention periods and review for the launch countries must be finalized before public launch.

Updated ยท 2026-10-09